Only you! no one else. Not your boyfriend, not your husband, not your mates, not your family, not the place you´re coming from and not the point you are standing at the moment.

Every step is your decision, never forget that. You are the painter of your life. Things are coming back to you how you live them. Paint your life in colorful colors and start right now!

There is no way to say “If I had…., then ..” your journey is beginning right now. Past is past, present is now.  You are deciding on the next step and every single one. Of course, there are consequences; there always be but no matter if the step is right left forward..  Decide for the step which makes you happy and you are passionate about and which leads you into a sustainable future.

I´m sure you know that feeling after a day of sitting around and just doing nothing, nothing which is fun and nothing what needs to be done. Actually a pretty depressing day wandering around and not having the power for nothing. You know how it is when you are just scrolling down your phone a hundred times not listening to the person in front of you or starring into your computer or TV all day night long

First of all, set your priorities, don´t let other things intrude, If your priority is to have 2 hours for friends/ sports/ Television or whatever makes you happy, then structure your day around it. There are some things in life, which need to get done; you can´t do anything about it, so just make them run and you feel awesome having time left for all the other (for you) much more important things in life. But positive fact: After hanging around just make a cut and dedicate yourself completely to what you were intending to do. Do it with enthusiasm and it will be easy! You know how long it took my to start up my blog again last week.. now I found my passion just writing about life no matter if people are reading it or not. That’s not important.. the most important thing is that it brings you a step further and fills you with passion.

And get out of your routine! Changes in life are absolutely normal and encouraged.. Life is meant to be lived with circles, corners, ups, downs and most important to always live the moment and make the best out of it. Things can change easily because people are coloring their life in different colors and walking ways with different corners and hills.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Days are running just over my head.. don´t waste time waiting for things to come, waiting for people to come.. react yourself and make the best out of it. Yesterday my boyfriend invited me for dinner because we didn´t have time together for some days. After dinner he told me he has to arrange something for tomorrow. After 2 hours he came back, and I was sleeping. Don´t let your time get wasted just because the other person is good in time wasting 😉   Every encounter will push you forward in life at some point and there are people who share your passion and motivation which will double your power. Another important process is to learn to say NO, just no.. say what you want and not want; it will make so many things so much easier.

Try to do one awesome thing every single day – for me that means some kind of sports, having some time outside, cooking with friends, having good talks with some buds , having a good glass of red wine and getting back to the roots. That is something else for everyone..

Having passion for life and what you do makes all that very easy. If you do something you love, it will spread positive vibes into your life and make you happy day by day. So live it and do it with passion.

The world out there is waiting for you!